So You Want to Win Her Back?
January 21, 2009 by admin
Filed under Get Her Back
Are you heartbroken and want to win her back? Wooing women as not as tough as it seems, as they tend to be more romantic than their male counterparts are. Women love with their hearts, men love with their heads.
Your best first step might be to pay a visit to The Magic Of Making Up, an amazing website from T.W. Jackson, an average Joe with above average techniques for winning back the one you love.
However, to lay some groundwork in order to win her back, some tips when relating to women are:
1. Really listen to her. Women are talkers and they like to know they’re being heard. If she’s telling you something she believes to be important, such as her job is causing her problems or her car is making “a funny noise”, she’s asking you to listen. These are things she’s asking your advice about and if you’re not listening, you’re not helping.
2. See her as more than a conquest. Women like to be appreciated in a relationship for more than just sex. If she’s interested in politics or current events and you aren’t, read up on it anyway so you can have an intelligent discussion with her. There will be many times she’s doing something she hates, but you love, just to please you and spend time with you. Return the favor and you’ll definitely reap the rewards.
3. Don’t be afraid to romance her. Women love the little things in life. What you might see as no big deal is a very big deal to her. If you’ve already broken up but you are still talking, invite her on some “no pressure” dates. A no pressure date is one in a more relaxed environment, such as lunch versus dinner, an afternoon movie instead of an evening showing, coffee at a nearby diner or coffee shop. Let her know how much you enjoy this time spent together at the end but don’t press for more than this. Don’t even bring up the subject of getting back together either as this might put too much pressure on her as well. She may start to feel as though you are “putting on a show” just to win her back.
4. Don’t go for the “grand gestures”. As stated previously, with women, the little things mean so much whereas men prefer the “grand gesture”. The grand gesture is sending flowers to her work, overly large boxes of candy or expensive jewelry. While those things are nice, they are also for someone in a relationship rather than one struggling to save one that is failing. These might come across as desperate.
5. Write love letters and send cards. Women love tangible proof of your affection. These are things they will save for years and re-read from time to time. Be careful how you phrase things, though. Don’t tell her you love her more than your Hemi engine. Don’t tell her that her eyes sparkle like a Large Mouth Bass on a cool fall morning. Do tell her you are incomplete without her and tell her why. Tell her you love the smell of her shampoo on the pillow, that you miss hearing her key in the door in the evening and being filled with a rush of excitement. Finally, don’t be afraid to tell her with a card or letter that you are sending it just because you thought of her and hoped her day was going well.
If you want to win her back, it will take patience and thoughtfulness, but you CAN win her back. Women are easy when it comes to matters of the heart if only you put your heart into the relationship as well. Don’t be afraid to tell her what she means to you, as more than a bedmate.
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The Secret of How to Get Her Back
December 2, 2008 by admin
Filed under Get Her Back
The love of your life is gone and all you can think about is how to get her back. Well, at least you can take comfort in the fact that you are not alone. Millions of guys have been where you are now: alone, worried, and missing their ladies. What you may not realize is that millions of guys have also managed to do exactly what you want to do: get her back. You may be surprised to know that it is easier than you think. All you need is a little guidance.
In his book The Magic of Making Up, the author T. W. Jackson gives men a comprehensive toolkit for repairing their broken relationships, and improving themselves while they are at it. The answers you are looking for involve knowing what behaviors to avoid, and being able to look at things from both the male and female point of view. As you gain the knowledge of what makes relationships work, you’ll become increasingly confident, able to express yourself with ease, and it will show every time you communicate with your ex. She’ll see your improved self-esteem, your genuine concern for the state of your relationship, and your willingness to make it work.
So many men attempt to get their ex’s back armed with little more than a cell phone, the advice of some equally clueless friends, and a tangible sense of desperation. It will take a lot more than that to change her mind and get her back! You need real help, based on real experience from people who have been there and made it back. In The Magic of Making Up, you’ll get just that. The book can be downloaded from T.W. Jackson’s website in electronic format, and you will find yourself feeling relieved within hours of beginning to read it. CLICK HERE to learn more about the book, the author, and the couples who have benefited from its wisdom.
At last you will have the answers you need and the tools you can use to repair your relationship for good. You’ll be able to overcome the mistakes of the past, focus on the positive, and inspire her to do the same. If you are really serious about finding a way to get her back, you won’t want to miss out on the opportunity to read The Magic of Making Up and putting it in to practice today.
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